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Writer's pictureEsther Nava

Metatron: The Divine Middle Manager (and What We Can Learn About Relationships from an Angel with a Godly Name)



So, let’s talk about the Talmud, angels, and heresy – not your typical dinner conversation, but hey, let’s dive in. We’re focusing on Metatron, this enigmatic figure who’s more than just your average angel. Metatron is described in the Talmud as an angel whose name is like the name of God, and let me tell you, that raises all sorts of theological eyebrows.

First off, in Sanhedrin 38b:19, we get this fascinating exchange where a heretic challenges the idea of monotheism using the figure of Metatron. The heretic points out that Moses is told to "Come up to the Lord," which could imply that there’s another divine figure in the picture. Rav Idit, the rabbi on the spot, doesn't flinch. He explains that Metatron, despite his lofty title and divine name, is still just an angel – a high-ranking one, sure, but definitely not God.

Let’s be real, Metatron is a bit of a mystery. The Talmudic and later Jewish texts seem to present him as this big deal in the angelic hierarchy, but not without a few caveats. For instance, in the Haamek Davar on Exodus 23:21:6, Metatron is depicted as powerful but not omnipotent. He’s even subject to punishment – not exactly what you’d expect from someone with a name like God’s. The commentary notes that even Metatron isn’t above the law. If he oversteps, he’s disciplined, which reminds us that no matter how high you rise, there’s always someone above you – in this case, the Big Guy Himself.

Now, let’s throw in some modern relationship advice with a little help from Dr. John Gottman. Gottman’s research on what makes relationships work is legendary, especially his concept of the “magic ratio” – that’s five positive interactions for every negative one. Metatron, in his heavenly role, might just embody this principle. He’s there to facilitate positive interactions between the Divine and the earthly, to keep things balanced. But just like in a relationship where one partner can’t do all the heavy lifting, Metatron’s power has limits. He’s a facilitator, not the source.

Speaking of relationships, Shem MiShmuel, Ki Tisa 10:18 dives into the special nature of Shabbat, where even Metatron takes a backseat. On Shabbat, the Jewish people connect directly with God, without needing any angelic intermediary. It’s like having a VIP pass that gets you straight to the headliner, skipping all the opening acts. This direct connection is something like Gottman’s idea of creating shared meaning in a relationship – it’s about deep, unmediated connection.

Now, here’s where it gets really interesting. In the Tanya, Metatron is symbolically represented as a bird, each part of its body corresponding to letters of God’s name. It’s kind of like when you’re trying to remember someone’s name and you associate it with something visual. The Tanya uses this imagery to explain how Metatron embodies a connection to divine law and wisdom. But just like in any relationship, where too much overthinking can lead to trouble, the Tanya warns against getting lost in the details. Sometimes, you need to just live the experience instead of analyzing every feather on the bird.

Now, let’s address the elephant in the room: Metatron’s role in the hierarchy of angels. Chesed LeAvraham tells us that Metatron is above other angels, but still under God’s authority. He’s got a lot of power, but it’s borrowed power, not his own. This reminds me of how in any good relationship, there’s a balance of power. Even if one person takes the lead in some areas, it doesn’t mean they’re the boss of everything. There’s mutual respect and recognition of each other’s roles – even if one of those roles involves, you know, running the universe.

But Metatron isn’t just a bureaucrat with wings. He’s also a teacher. In Avodah Zarah 3b:12, we see that Metatron might have been involved in teaching Torah to schoolchildren before the destruction of the Temple. It’s like he’s the ultimate substitute teacher, stepping in when things get tough. But even the best teachers know when to step back and let the students take the lead, which is what happens on Shabbat when the Jewish people connect directly with God.

So, what’s the takeaway here? Metatron is a powerful figure, sure, but he’s also a reminder that power is always relative. Whether in the heavens or in our relationships, the key is understanding our role, respecting boundaries, and recognizing that sometimes, the most important connections are the ones that are direct and unmediated. And remember, even if you’re not an angel with a divine name, you’ve got your own role to play in the grand cosmic dance.

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